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Understanding and Exploring P.A.C.E.

BOUNCE Approach®CPD CertifiedOn-DemandTrauma-InformedAttachment-Based

Using the PACE Approach with Children

PACE isn’t a technique — it’s a way of being that helps children feel safe enough to connect, regulate, and trust.


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BOUNCE Approach®AttachmentCPD CertifiedOn-DemandND-Affirming

Understanding and Exploring P.A.C.E.

Explore the four elements of Dan Hughes’ trauma-informed relational approach — and how to bring Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy into your real-world practice.


Some children don’t need more boundaries, more consequences, or more reasoning. They need an adult whose presence feels safe enough to risk being seen. Children impacted by trauma, insecure attachment, or nervous system overwhelm aren’t choosing to be difficult — they’re protecting themselves from relationships that have hurt before. And the way back isn’t a behaviour plan. It’s a way of being.

PACE — Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, Empathy — was developed by Dr Dan Hughes as a trauma-informed relational approach grounded in attachment theory. This training explores each of the four elements and how to bring them into practice across schools, homes, and therapeutic settings. Informed by Polyvagal Theory, neurodivergent-affirming values, and the understanding that behaviour is always communication.

Designed for teaching assistants, SENCOs, pastoral leads, ELSAs, therapists, social workers, foster carers, and adoptive parents. No prior knowledge of PACE or attachment theory required — just a willingness to show up differently for the children who need it most.

Also included

Three bonus resources to deepen your practice.

💜 Wellbeing Snapshot Access

A structured snapshot to identify where a child may be struggling on the inside while appearing fine on the outside — so you can see beneath the surface and respond to what is actually there.

📈 Progress Overview Access

Track entry to exit progress and evidence what has changed across the review period — giving you a clear picture of impact over time.

🧠 Introduction to the BOUNCE Approach® Webinar

Understand the nervous system foundations behind regulation, emotional expression, and connection — so you can apply them with confidence in your sessions.

Learning Objectives

Learning Objectives

Four shifts in how you show up for children who struggle to feel safe in relationship.

1

You understand PACE as a way of being, not a technique

Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy move from being abstract ideas to being a stance you can bring into the room. The training gives you the principles and the language — reflection and practice do the rest.

2

Behaviour becomes communication, not a problem to solve

The frame shifts from “how do I stop this behaviour?” to “what is this child’s nervous system telling me?” — especially for children with trauma histories, sensory needs, or attachment disruption. The behaviour doesn’t become acceptable. It becomes meaningful.

3

You show up as the co-regulating adult

Children in dysregulation borrow regulation from the adult in front of them. The training invites you to notice your own nervous system, your own triggers, and your own communication patterns — because the state you bring is the state the child will feel.

4

Trust becomes possible where it wasn’t before

For children who haven’t yet found adults safe enough to be themselves with, PACE creates the conditions for that to change. Relational safety first. Regulation second. Everything else — learning, behaviour, growth — follows from there.

ResourcesMonthlyAnnual
🧘 Somatic Toolkit
🪟 Window of Tolerance Activity Pack
🧩 Managing Demand Avoidance Toolkit
⛏️ Minecraft Belief Systems
🧱 LEGO® Belief Systems
🧱 Therapeutic LEGO® Pack
😀 Emoji Body Map
🧠 Creating a Neuroprofile
🧍 Physical Body Scan
🗓️ Visual Timetable (Home Use)
📊 SEMH Assessment Trackers
📖 Metaphorical Stories
🧠 Sensory Profile Assessment
🗣️ Pupil Voice Tools
🗺️ Body Mapping
🛠️ Restore, Repair & Prevent Toolkit
🧩 “A Part of Me Feels” Resource
🎨 Window of Tolerance Fun Pack
📈 Assessment Trackers
📉 SUD Scale
📝 Support Plan Pack
😊😟 Positive & Negative Affect Schedule
📎 BOUNCE Strips and Fans
🧠 BOUNCE + Window of Tolerance Pack
🧱 Positive Posters – LEGO® Style
🤝 Self- and Co-Regulation Posters
🏫 Classroom Bumper Display Pack
🌈 Sensory Differences Activity Pack
👾 Mood Monsters Classroom Pack
⚙️ Executive Function Pack

EVERY resource on the website is included, such as:

🧘 Somatic Toolkit
😀 Emoji Body Map
🧍 Physical Body Scan
🧱 Therapeutic LEGO® Pack
🗓️ Visual Timetable (Home Use)
📊 SEMH Assessment Tracker
📖 Metaphorical Stories
🧠 Sensory Profile Assessment
🗣️ Pupil Voice Tools
🪟 Window of Tolerance
🧩 Managing Demand Avoidance Toolkit
🗺️ Body Mapping
🛠️ Restore, Repair & Prevent Toolkit
🧩 “A Part of Me Feels” Resource
🎨 Window of Tolerance Fun Pack
📈 Assessment Tracker
📉 SUD Scale
📝 Support Plan Pack
😊😟 Positive & Negative Affect Schedule
📎 Strips and Fans
🧠 BOUNCE + Window of Tolerance Pack
🧱 Positive Posters – LEGO® Style
🤝 Self- and Co-Regulation Posters
🏫 Classroom Bumper Display Pack
🌈 Sensory Differences
👾 Mood Monsters Classroom Pack
⚙️ Executive Function Pack
🧠 Creating a Neuroprofile
⛏️ Minecraft Belief Systems
🧱 LEGO® Belief Systems

Licence: Whole-setting use

Team Membership

  • Best for: Whole schools, nurseries, colleges, or service teams (e.g. NHS, local authorities, care settings)

Each month you’ll get an EXTRA:

✅ A professional resource

🎥 A walkthrough video

🎓 A CPD professional webinar

Licence: Whole-setting use

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